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England people�察 �largely  descended   from  Puritan   stock�察 �there  still   lingers 

some blind impulse at self´mortification�察�an hereditary inclination to make 

this life as disagreeable as possible by self´ immolation。 Their ancestors�察�

we are told by Macaulay�察�suppressed bull baiting�察�not because it hurt the 

bull�察�but because it gave pleasure to the people。 Here in New England they 

refused      the   Roman      dogma      of   Purgatory      and    then   with    complete 

inconsistency�察�invented the boarding´house�察�in order�察�doubtless�察�to take as 

much of   the joy  as possible out of this life�察�as   a preparation   for  endless 

bliss in the next。 



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             CHAPTER 15 ´ A False Start 



       HAVING had�察�during a wandering existence�察�many opportunities of 

observing my compatriots away from home and familiar surroundings in 

various circles of cosmopolitan society�察�at foreign courts�察�in diplomatic life�察�

or   unofficial   capacities�察  �I   am   forced   to   acknowledge   that   whereas   my 

countrywoman         invariably     assumed     her   new    position    with   grace    and 

dignity�察    �my    countryman�察     �in   the   majority     of   cases�察  �appeared     at   a 

disadvantage。 

     I take particular pleasure in making this tribute to my ;sisters; tact and 

wit�察  �as   I   have   been   accused   of   being   ;hard;   on   American   women�察  �and 

some      half´humorous       criticisms    have    been    taken    seriously    by   over´ 

susceptible      women      ´  doubtless    troubled     with   guilty   consciences      for 

nothing is more exact than the old French proverb�察 �It is only the truth that 

wounds。; 

     The fact remains clear�察�however�察�that American men�察�as regards polish�察�

facility in expressing themselves in foreign languages�察�the arts of pleasing 

and entertaining�察�in short�察�the thousand and one nothings composing that 

agreeable     whole�察   �a  cultivated    member      of  society�察  �are  inferior   to  their 

womankind。   I   feel   sure   that   all Americans   who   have   travelled   and   have 

seen their compatriot in his social relations with foreigners�察�will agree with 

this�察�reluctant as I am to acknowledge it。 

     That    a   sister  and    brother    brought    up   together�察   �under    the   same 

influences�察�should later differ to this extent seems incredible。 It is just this 

that convinces me we have made a false start as regards the education and 

ambitions of our young men。 

     To find the reasons one has only to glance back at our past。 After the 

struggle   that   insured   our   existence   as   a   united   nation�察  �came   a   period   of 

great   prosperity。   When   both   seemed   secure�察  �we   did   not   pause   and   take 

breath�察�as it were�察�before entering a new epoch of development�察�but dashed 

ahead on the old lines。 It is here that we got on the wrong road。 Naturally 

enough too�察�for our peculiar position on this continent�察�far away from the 

centres   of   cultivation   and   art�察  �surrounded   only   by   less   successful   states 

with which to compare ourselves�察�has led us into forming erroneous ideas 



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as   to   the   proportions   of   things�察  �causing   us   to   exaggerate   the   value   of 

material prosperity and undervalue matters of infinitely greater importance�察�

which have been neglected in consequence。 

     A   man   who�察  �after   fighting   through   our   late   war�察  �had   succeeded   in 

amassing   a   fortune�察  �naturally   wished   his   son   to   follow   him   on   the   only 

road    in   which    it  had   ever   occurred     to  him    that   success    was   of   any 

importance。 So beyond giving the boy a college education�察�which he had 

not enjoyed�察�his ambition rarely went�察�his idea being to make a practical 

business man of him�察�or a lawyer�察�that he could keep the estate together 

more  intelligently。   In   thousands   of   cases�察  �of   course�察  �individual   taste   and 

bent over´ruled this influence�察�and a career of science or art was chosen�察�

but in the mass of the American people�察�it was firmly implanted that the 

pursuit of wealth   was the only occupation to which   a reasonable   human 

being   could   devote   himself。   A   young   man   who   was   not   in   some   way 

engaged in increasing his income was looked upon as a very undesirable 

member of society�察�and sure�察�sooner or later�察�to come to harm。 

     Millionaires declined to send their sons to college�察�saying they would 

get ideas there that would unfit them for business�察�to Paterfamilias the one 

object     of  life。  Under     such   fostering    influences�察    �the   ambitions     in  our 

country have gradually given way to money standards and the false start 

has been made� �Leaving aside at once the question of money in its relation 

to our politics ��although it would be a fruitful subject for moralizing���察�and 

confining   ourselves   strictly   to   the   social   side   of   life�察  �we   soon   see   the 

results of this mammon worship。 

     In   England   ��although   Englishmen   have   been   contemptuously   called 

the shop´keepers of the world�� the extension and maintenance of their vast 

empire   is   the   mainspring   which   keeps   the   great   machine   in   movement。 

And   one   sees   tens   of   thousands   of   well´born   and   delicately´bred   men 

cheerfully entering the many branches of public service where the hope of 

wealth can never come�察�and retiring on pensions or half´pay in the strength 

of their middle age�察�apparently without a regret or a thought beyond their 

country's well´being。 

     In   France�察  �where   the   passionate   love   of   their   own       land   has   made 

colonial     extension     impossible�察    �the   modern     Frenchman       of  education     is 



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more interested in the yearly exhibition at the SALON or in a successful 

play at the FRANCAIS�察�than in the stock markets of the world。 

     Would that our young men had either of these bents� �They have copied 

from England a certain love of sport�察�without the English climate or the 

calm     of   country    and    garrison    life�察 �to  make     these   sports    logical   and 

necessary。      As   the   young    American       millionaire    thinks    he   must   go   on 

increasing   his   fortune�察  �we  see  the   anomaly  of   a   man   working   through   a 

summer's day in Wall Street�察�then dashing in a train to some suburban club�察�

and appearing a half´hour later on the polo field。 Next to wealth�察�sport has 

become   the   ambition   of   the   wealthy   classes�察  �and   has   grown   so   into   our 

college life that the number of students in the freshman class of our great 

universities is seriously influenced by that institution's losses or gains at 

football。 

     What is the result of all this�拭�A young man starts in life with the firm 

intention of making a great deal of money。 If he has any time left from that 

occupation he will devote it to sport。 Later in life�察�when he has leisure and 

travels�察�or is otherwise thrown with cultivated strangers�察�he must naturally 

be   at   a   disadvantage。   ;Shop�察─  �he   cannot   talk�察  �he   knows   that   is   vulgar。 

Music�察�art�察�the drama�察�and literature are closed books to him�察�in spite of 

the fact that he may have a box on the grand tier at the opera and a couple 

of dozen high´priced ;masterpieces; hanging around his drawing´ rooms。 

If   he   is   of   a   finer   clay   than   the   general   run   of   his   class�察  �he   will   realize 

dimly that somehow

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