a vindication of the rights of woman-第31章
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as nature directs； different qualities； and assume the different characters； that the same passions； modified almost to infinity； give to each individual。 A virtuous man may have a choleric or a sanguine constitution； be gay or grave； unreproved； be firm till be is almost over…bearing； or； weakly submissive； have no will or opinion of his own； but all women are to be levelled； by meekness and docility； into one character of yielding softness and gentle compliance。 I will use the preacher's own words。 〃Let it be observed； that in your sex manly exercises are never graceful； that in them a tone and figure； as well as an air and deportment； of the masculine kind； are always forbidding； and that men of sensibility desire in every woman soft features； and a flowing voice； a form not robust； and demeanour delicate and gentle。〃 Is not the following portraitthe portrait of a house slave？ 〃I am astonished at the folly of many women； who are still reproaching their husbands for leaving them alone； for preferring this or that company to theirs； for treating them with this and the other mark of disregard or indifference； when； to speak the truth； they have themselves in a great measure to blame。 Not that I would justify the men in any thing wrong on their part。 But had you behaved to them with more RESPECTFUL OBSERVANCE； and a more EQUAL TENDERNESS； STUDYING THEIR HUMOURS； OVERLOOKING THEIR MISTAKES； SUBMITTING TO THEIR OPINIONS in matters indifferent； passing by little instances of unevenness； caprice； or passion； giving SOFT answers to hasty words； complaining as seldom as possible； and making it your daily care to relieve their anxieties and prevent their wishes； to enliven the hour of dulness； and call up the ideas of felicity： had you pursued this conduct； I doubt not but you would have maintained and even increased their esteem； so far as to have secured every degree of influence that could conduce to their virtue； or your mutual satisfaction； and your house might at this day have been the abode of domestic bliss。〃 Such a woman ought to be an angelor she is an assfor I discern not a trace of the human character； neither reason nor passion in this domestic drudge； whose being is absorbed in that of a tyrant's。 Still Dr。 Fordyce must have very little acquaintance with the human heart； if he really supposed that such conduct would bring back wandering love； instead of exciting contempt。 No； beauty； gentleness； etc。 etc。 may gain a heart； but esteem； the only lasting affection； can alone be obtained by virtue supported by reason。 It is respect for the understanding that keeps alive tenderness for the person。 As these volumes are so frequently put into the hands of young people； I have taken more notice of them than strictly speaking； they deserve； but as they have contributed to vitiate the taste； and enervate the understanding of many of my fellow…creatures； I could not pass them silently over。 SECTION 5。3。 Such paternal solicitude pervades Dr。 Gregory's Legacy to his daughters； that I enter on the task of criticism with affectionate respect； but as this little volume has many attractions to recommend it to the notice of the most respectable part of my sex； I cannot silently pass over arguments that so speciously support opinions which； I think； have had the most baneful effect on the morals and manners of the female world。 His easy familiar style is particularly suited to the tenor of his advice； and the melancholy tenderness which his respect for the memory of a beloved wife diffuses through the whole work； renders it very interesting； yet there is a degree of concise elegance conspicuous in many passages； that disturbs this sympathy； and we pop on the author； when we only expected to meet thefather。 Besides； having two objects in view； he seldom adhered steadily to either； for； wishing to make his daughters amiable； and fearing lest unhappiness should only be the consequence； of instilling sentiments； that might draw them out of the track of common life； without enabling them to act with consonant independence and dignity； he checks the natural flow of his thoughts； and neither advises one thing nor the other。 In the preface he tells them a mournful truth； 〃that they will hear； at least once in their lives； the genuine sentiments of a man； who has no interest in deceiving them。〃 Hapless woman！ what can be expected from thee； when the beings on whom thou art said naturally to depend for reason and support； have all an interest in deceiving thee！ This is the root of the evil that has shed a corroding mildew on all thy virtues； and blighting in the bud thy opening faculties； has rendered thee the weak thing thou art！ It is this separate interest this insidious state of warfare； that undermines morality； and divides mankind！ If love has made some women wretchedhow many more has the cold unmeaning intercourse of gallantry rendered vain and useless！ yet this heartless attention to the sex is reckoned so manly； so polite； that till society is very differently organized； I fear； this vestige of gothic manners will not be done away by a more reasonable and affectionate mode of conduct。 Besides； to strip it of its imaginary dignity； I must observe； that in the most civilized European states； this lip…service prevails in a very great degree； accompanied with extreme dissoluteness of morals。 In Portugal； the country that I particularly allude to； it takes place of the most serious moral obligations； for a man is seldom assassinated when in the company of a woman。 The savage hand of rapine is unnerved by this chivalrous spirit； and； if the stroke of vengeance cannot be stayedthe lady is entreated to pardon the rudeness and depart in peace； though sprinkled； perhaps； with her husband's or brother's blood。 I shall pass over his strictures on religion； because I mean to discuss that subject in a separate chapter。 The remarks relative to behaviour； though many of them very sensible； I entirely disapprove of； because it appears to me to be beginning； as it were at the wrong end。 A cultivated understanding； and an affectionate heart； will never want starched rules of decorum； something more substantial than seemliness will be the result； and； without understanding； the behaviour here recommended； would be rank affectation。 Decorum； indeed； is the one thing needful！ decorum is to supplant nature； and banish all simplicity and variety of character out of the female world。 Yet what good end can all this superficial counsel produce？ It is； however； much easier to point out this or that mode of behaviour； than to set the reason to work； but； when the mind has been stored with useful knowledge； and strengthened by being employed； the regulation of the behaviour may safely be left to its guidance。 Why； for instance； should the following caution be given； when art of every kind must contaminate the mind； and why entangle the grand motives of action； which reason and religion equally combine to enforce； with pitiful worldly shifts and slight of hand tricks to gain the applause of gaping tasteless fools？ 〃Be even cautious in displaying your good sense。* It will be thought you assume a superiority over the rest of the company But if you happen to have any learning keep it a profound secret； especially from the men； who generally look with a jealous and malignant eye on a woman of great parts； and a cultivated understanding。〃 If men of real merit； as he afterwards observes； are superior to this meanness； where is the necessity that the behaviour of the whole sex should be modulated to please fools； or men； who having little claim to respect as individuals； choose to keep close in their phalanx。 Men； indeed； who insist on their common superiority； having only this sexual superiority； are certainly very excusable。 （*Footnote。 Let women once acquire good senseand if it deserve the name； it will teach them； or； of what use will it be how to employ it。） There would be no end to rules for behaviour； if it be proper always to adopt the tone of the company； for thus； for ever varying the key； a FLAT would often pass for a NATURAL note。 Surely it would have been wiser to have advised women to improve themselves till they rose above the fumes of vanity； and t
