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and guests�察�slept under its roof�察�and two hundred horses were housed in its
stables。
The Duc de Luynes and his wife�察�who was Mlle。 de Crussol ��daughter
of the brilliant Duchesse d'Uzes of Boulanger fame���察 �live at Dampierre�察�
another interesting pile filled with rare pictures�察�bric´a´brac�察�and statuary�察�
first among which is Jean Goujon's life´sized statue ��in silver�� of Louis
XIII。�察�presented by that monarch to his favorite�察�the founder of the house。
This gem of the Renaissance stands in an octagonal chamber hung in dark
velvet�察�unique among statues。 It has been shown but once in public�察�at the
Loan Exhibition in 1872�察�when the patriotic nobility lent their treasures to
collect a fund for the Alsace´Lorraine exiles。
The Duchesse de Noailles�察 �NEE Mlle。 de Luynes�察 �is another of this
coterie and one of the few French noblewomen who has travelled。 Many
Americans will remember the visit she made here with her mother some
years ago�察�and the effect her girlish grace produced at that time。 The de
Noailles' chateau of Maintenon is an inheritance from Louis XIV。's prudish
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favorite�察�who founded and enriched the de Noailles family。 The Duc and
Duchesse d'Uzes live near by at Bonnelle with the old Duc de
Doudeauville�察 �her grandfather�察 �who is also the grandfather of Mme。 de
Noailles�察 �these two ladies being descended each from a wife of the old
duke�察 �the former from the Princesse de Polignac and the latter from the
Princesse de Ligne。
The Duchesse de Bisaccia�察 �NEE Princesse Radziwill�察 �and the
Duchesse d'Harcourt�察 �who complete the circle of seven�察 �also live in this
vicinity�察 �where another group of historic residences�察 �including Eclimont
and Rambouillet�察�the summer home of the president�察�rivals in gayety and
hospitality the chateaux of the Loire。
No coterie in England or in this country corresponds at all to this
French community。 Much as they love to amuse themselves�察 �the idea of
meeting any but their own set has never passed through their well´dressed
heads。 They differ from their parents in that they have broken away from
many antiquated habits。 Their houses are no longer lay hermitages�察 �and
their opera boxes are regularly filled�察�but no foreigner is ever received�察�no
ambitious parvenu accepted among them。 Ostracism here means not a ten
years' exile�察�but lifelong banishment。
The contrast is strong between this rigor and the enthusiasm with
which wealthy new´comers are welcomed into London society or by our
own upper crust�察 �so full of unpalatable pieces of dough。 This
exclusiveness of the titled French reminds me ´ incongruously enough ´ of
a certain arrangement of graves in a Lenox cemetery�察�where the members
of an old New England family lie buried in a circle with their feet toward
its centre。 When I asked�察�many years ago�察�the reason for this arrangement�察�
a wit of that day ´ a daughter�察�by the bye�察�of Mrs。 Stowe ´ replied�察 �So that
when they rise at the Last Day only members of their own family may face
them� ─�
One is struck by another peculiarity of these French men and women ´
their astonishing proficiency in LES ARTS D'AGREMENT。 Every
Frenchwoman of any pretensions to fashion backs her beauty and grace
with some art in which she is sure to be proficient。 The dowager Duchesse
d'Uzes is a sculptor of mark�察 �and when during the autumn Mme。 de
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Tredern gives opera at Brissac�察�she finds little difficulty in recruiting her
troupe from among the youths and maidens under her roof whose musical
education has been thorough enough to enable them to sing difficult music
in public。
Love of the fine arts is felt in their conversation�察�in the arrangement
and decoration of their homes�察 �and in the interest that an exhibition of
pictures or old furniture will excite。 Few of these people but are
HABITUES of the Hotel Drouot and conversant with the value and
authenticity of the works of art daily sold there。 Such elements combine to
form an atmosphere that does not exist in any other country�察�and lends an
interest to society in France which it is far from possessing elsewhere。
There is but one way that an outsider can enter this Gallic paradise。 By
marrying into it� �Two of the seven ladies in question lack the quarterings
of the rest。 Miss Mitchell was only a charming American girl�察 �and the
mother of the Princesse Radziwill was Mlle。 Blanc of Monte Carlo。
However�察�as in most religions there are ceremonies that purify�察�so in this
case the sacrament of marriage is supposed to have reconstructed these
wives and made them genealogically whole。
There is something incongruous to most people in the idea of a young
girl hardly out of the schoolroom bearing a ponderous title。 The pomp and
circumstance that surround historic names connect them ��through our
reading�� with stately matrons playing the ;heavy female; roles in life's
drama�察 �much as Lady Macbeth's name evokes the idea of a raw´boned
mother´in´law sort of person�察�the reverse of attractive�察�and quite the last
woman in the world to egg her husband on to a crime ´ unless it were wife
murder� �
Names like de Chevreuse�察 �or de la Rochefoucauld�察�seem appropriate
only to the warlike amazons of the Fronde�察 �or corpulent kill´joys in
powder and court trains of the Mme。 Etiquette school�察�it comes as a shock�察�
on being presented to a group of girlish figures in the latest cut of golfing
skirts�察�who are chattering odds on the Grand Prix in faultless English�察�to
realize that these light´hearted GAMINES are the present owners of
sonorous titles。 One shudders to think what would have been the effect on
poor Marie Antoinette's priggish mentor could she have foreseen her
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granddaughter�察�clad in knickerbockers�察�running a petroleum tricycle in the
streets of Paris�察�or pedalling ;tandem; across country behind some young
cavalry officer of her connection。
Let no simple´minded American imagine�察�however�察�that these up´ to´
date women are waiting to welcome him and his family to their intimacy。
The world outside of France does not exist for a properly brought up
French aristocrat。 Few have travelled�察�from their point of view�察�any man
with money�察 �born outside of France�察 �is a ;Rasta�察─ �unless he come with
diplomatic rank�察�in which case his position at home is carefully ferreted
out before he is entertained。 Wealthy foreigners may live for years in Paris�察�
without meeting a single member of this coterie�察�who will�察�however�察�join
any new club that promises to be amusing�察�but as soon as the ;Rastas; get
a footing�察 �the seven; and their following withdraw。 Puteaux had its day�察�
then the ;Polo Club; in the Bois became their rendezvous。 But as every
wealthy American and ;smart; Englishwoman passing the spring in Paris
rushed for that too open circle�察�like tacks toward a magnet�察�it was