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this country。 In the first place�察�we are still too provincial in this big city of
ours。 New York always reminds me of a definition I once heard of
California fruit�此 �Very large�察�with no particular flavor。; We are like a boy�察�
who has had the misfortune to grow too quickly and look like a man�察�but
whose mind has not kept pace with his body。 What he knows is undigested
and chaotic�察�while his appearance makes you expect more of him than he
can give ´ hence disappointment。
Our society is yet in knickerbockers�察 �and has retained all sorts of
littlenesses and prejudices which older civilizations have long since
relegated to the mental lumber room。 An equivalent to this point of view
you will find in England or France only in the smaller ;cathedral; cities�察�
and even there the old aristocrats have the courage of their opinions。 Here�察�
where everything is quite frankly on a money basis�察 �and ;positions; are
made and lost like a fortune�察�by a turn of the market�察�those qualities which
are purely mental�察 �and on which it is hard to put a practical value�察 �are
naturally at a discount。 We are quite ready to pay for the best。 Witness our
private galleries and the opera�察 �but we say�察 �like the parvenu in Emile
Augier's delightful comedy LE GENDRE DE M。 POIRIER�察 �Patronize art�拭�
Of course� �But the artists�拭 �Never� ─�And frankly�察 �it would be too much�察�
would it not�察�to expect a family only half a generation away from an iron
foundry�察�or a mine�察�to be willing to receive Irving or Bernhardt on terms of
perfect equality�拭�
As it would be unjust to demand a mature mind in the overgrown boy�察�
it is useless to hope for delicate tact and social feeling from the parvenu。
To be gracious and at ease with all classes and professions�察�one must be
perfectly sure of one's own position�察�and with us few feel this security�察�it
being based on too frail a foundation�察�a crisis in the ;street; going a long
way towards destroying it。
Of course I am generalizing and doubt not that in many cultivated
homes the right spirit exists�察 �but unfortunately these are not the centres
which give the tone to our ;world。; Lately at one of the most splendid
houses in this city a young Italian tenor had been engaged to sing。 When
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he had finished he stood alone�察�unnoticed�察�unspoken to for the rest of the
evening。 He had been paid to sing。 ;What more�察�in common sense�察�could
he want�拭─�thought the ;world�察─�without reflecting that it was probably not
the TENOR who lost by that arrangement。 It needs a delicate hand to hold
the reins over the backs of such a fine´mouthed community as artists and
singers form。 They rarely give their best when singing or performing in a
hostile atmosphere。
A few years ago when a fancy´dress ball was given at the Academy of
Design�察�the original idea was to have it an artists' ball�察�the community of
the brush were�察 �however�察 �approached with such a complete lack of tact
that�察 �with hardly an exception�察 �they held aloof�察 �and at the ball shone
conspicuous by their absence。
At present in this city I know of but two hospitable firesides where you
are sure to meet the best the city holds of either foreign or native talent。
The one is presided over by the wife of a young composer�察�and the other�察�
oddly enough�察 �by two unmarried ladies。 An invitation to a dinner or a
supper at either of these houses is as eagerly sought after and as highly
prized in the great world as it is by the Bohemians�察�though neither ;salon;
is open regularly。
There is still hope for us�察 �and I already see signs of better things。
Perhaps�察�when my English friend returns in a few years�察�we may be able to
prove to her that we have found the road to Prague。
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CHAPTER 11 ´ Social Exiles
BALZAC�察 �in his COMEDIE HUMAINE�察 �has reviewed with a
master´hand almost every phase of the Social World of Paris down to 1850
and Thackeray left hardly a corner of London High Life unexplored�察�but
so great have been the changes ��progress�察�its admirers call it�撮� since then�察�
that�察 �could Balzac come back to his beloved Paris�察 �he would feel like a
foreigner there�察�and Thackeray�察�who was among us but yesterday�察�would
have difficulty in finding his bearings in the sea of the London world to´
day。
We have changed so radically that even a casual observer cannot help
being struck by the difference。 Among other most significant
;phenomena; has appeared a phase of life that not only neither of these
great men observed ��for the very good reason that it had not appeared in
their time���察�but which seems also to have escaped the notice of the writers
of our own day�察 �close observers as they are of any new development。 I
mean the class of Social Exiles�察�pitiable wanderers from home and country�察�
who haunt the Continent�察�and are to be found ��sad little colonies�� in out´
of´the´way corners of almost every civilized country。
To know much of this form of modern life�察 �one must have been a
wanderer�察�like myself�察�and have pitched his tent in many queer places�察�for
they are shy game and not easily raised�察�frequenting mostly quiet old cities
like Versailles and Florence�察 �or inexpensive watering´places where their
meagre incomes become affluence by contrast。 The first thought on
dropping in on such a settlement is�察 �How in the world did these people
ever drift here�拭─ �It is simple enough and generally comes about in this
way�此�
The father of a wealthy family dies。 The fortune turns out to be less
than was expected。 The widow and children decide to go abroad for a year
or so�察 �during their period of mourning�察 �partially for distraction�察 �and
partially ��a fact which is not spoken of�� because at home they would be
forced to change their way of living to a simpler one�察�and that is hard to do�察�
just at first。 Later they think it will be quite easy。 So the family emigrates�察�
and after a little sight´seeing�察�settles in Dresden or Tours�察�casually at first�察�
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in a hotel。 If there are young children they are made the excuse。 ;The
languages are so important� ─�Or else one of the daughters develops a taste
for music�察�or a son takes up the study of art。 In a year or two�察�before a
furnished apartment is taken�察 �the idea of returning is discussed�察 �but
abandoned ;for the present。; They begin vaguely to realize how difficult it
will be to take life up again at home。 During all this time their income
��like everything else when the owners are absent�� has been slowly but
surely disappearing�察 �making the return each year more difficult。 Finally�察�
for economy�察�an unfurnished apartment is taken。 They send home for bits
of furniture and family belongings�察�and gradually drop into the great army
of the expatriated。
Oh�察�the pathos of it� �One who has not seen these poor stranded waifs
in their self´imposed exile�察 �with eyes