a vindication of the rights of woman-第24章
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ade the sex from whom they pretend to receive the chief pleasure of life； and I have frequently； with full conviction； retorted Pope's sarcasm on them； or； to speak explicitly； it has appeared to me applicable to the whole human race。 A love of pleasure or sway seems to divide mankind； and the husband who lords it in his little harem； thinks only of his pleasure or his convenience。 To such lengths； indeed； does an intemperate love of pleasure carry some prudent men； or worn out libertines； who marry to have a safe companion； that they seduce their own wives。 Hymen banishes modesty； and chaste love takes its flight。 Love； considered as an animal appetite； cannot long feed on itself without expiring。 And this extinction； in its own flame； may be termed the violent death of love。 But the wife who has thus been rendered licentious； will probably endeavour to fill the void left by the loss of her husband's attentions； for she cannot contentedly become merely an upper servant after having been treated like a goddess。 She is still handsome； and； instead of transferring her fondness to her children； she only dreams of enjoying the sunshine of life。 Besides； there are many husbands so devoid of sense and parental affection； that during the first effervescence of voluptuous fondness； they refuse to let their wives suckle their children。 They are only to dress and live to please them： and love； even innocent love； soon sinks into lasciviousness when the exercise of a duty is sacrificed to its indulgence。 Personal attachment is a very happy foundation for friendship； yet； when even two virtuous young people marry； it would； perhaps； be happy if some circumstance checked their passion； if the recollection of some prior attachment； or disappointed affection； made it on one side； at least； rather a match founded on esteem。 In that case they would look beyond the present moment； and try to render the whole of life respectable； by forming a plan to regulate a friendship which only death ought to dissolve。 Friendship is a serious affection； the most sublime of all affections； because it is founded on principle； and cemented by time。 The very reverse may be said of love。 In a great degree； love and friendship cannot subsist in the same bosom； even when inspired by different objects they weaken or destroy each other； and for the same object can only be felt in succession。 The vain fears and fond jealousies； the winds which fan the flame of love； when judiciously or artfully tempered； are both incompatible with the tender confidence and sincere respect of friendship。 Love； such as the glowing pen of genius has traced； exists not on earth； or only resides in those exalted； fervid imaginations that have sketched such dangerous pictures。 Dangerous； because they not only afford a plausible excuse to the voluptuary； who disguises sheer sensuality under a sentimental veil； but as they spread affectation； and take from the dignity of virtue。 Virtue； as the very word imports； should have an appearance of seriousness； if not austerity； and to endeavour to trick her out in the garb of pleasure； because the epithet has been used as another name for beauty； is to exalt her on a quicksand； a most insidious attempt to hasten her fall by apparent respect。 Virtue； and pleasure are not； in fact； so nearly allied in this life as some eloquent writers have laboured to prove。 Pleasure prepares the fading wreath； and mixes the intoxicating cup； but the fruit which virtue gives； is the recompence of toil： and； gradually seen as it ripens； only affords calm satisfaction； nay； appearing to be the result of the natural tendency of things； it is scarcely observed。 Bread； the common food of life； seldom thought of as a blessing； supports the constitution； and preserves health； still feasts delight the heart of man； though disease and even death lurk in the cup or dainty that elevates the spirits or tickles the palate。 The lively heated imagination in the same style； draws the picture of love； as it draws every other picture； with those glowing colours； which the daring hand will steal from the rainbow that is directed by a mind； condemned； in a world like this； to prove its noble origin； by panting after unattainable perfection； ever pursuing what it acknowledges to be a fleeting dream。 An imagination of this vigorous cast can give existence to insubstantial forms； and stability to the shadowy reveries which the mind naturally falls into when realities are found vapid。 It can then depict love with celestial charms； and dote on the grand ideal object； it can imagine a degree of mutual affection that shall refine the soul； and not expire when it has served as a 〃scale to heavenly；〃 and； like devotion； make it absorb every meaner affection and desire。 In each other's arms； as in a temple； with its summit lost in the clouds； the world is to be shut out； and every thought and wish； that do not nurture pure affection and permanent virtue。 Permanent virtue！ alas！ Rousseau； respectable visionary！ thy paradise would soon be violated by the entrance of some unexpected guest。 Like Milton's； it would only contain angels； or men sunk below the dignity of rational creatures。 Happiness is not material； it cannot be seen or felt！ Yet the eager pursuit of the good which every one shapes to his own fancy； proclaims man the lord of this lower world； and to be an intelligential creature； who is not to receive； but acquire happiness。 They； therefore； who complain of the delusions of passion； do not recollect that they are exclaiming against a strong proof of the immortality of the soul。 But； leaving superior minds to correct themselves； and pay dearly for their experience； it is necessary to observe； that it is not against strong； persevering passions； but romantic； wavering feelings； that I wish to guard the female heart by exercising the understanding； for these paradisiacal reveries are oftener the effect of idleness than of a lively fancy。 Women have seldom sufficient serious employment to silence their feelings； a round of little cares； or vain pursuits； frittering away all strength of mind and organs； they become naturally only objects of sense。 In short； the whole tenor of female education （the education of society） tends to render the best disposed； romantic and inconstant； and the remainder vain and mean。 In the present state of society； this evil can scarcely be remedied； I am afraid； in the slightest degree； should a more laudable ambition ever gain ground； they may be brought nearer to nature and reason； and become more virtuous and useful as they grow more respectable。 But I will venture to assert； that their reason will never acquire sufficient strength to enable it to regulate their conduct； whilst the making an appearance in the world is the first wish of the majority of mankind。 To this weak wish the natural affections and the most useful virtues are sacrificed。 Girls marry merely to BETTER THEMSELVES； to borrow a significant vulgar phrase； and have such perfect power over their hearts as not to permit themselves to FALL IN LOVE till a man with a superior fortune offers。 On this subject I mean to enlarge in a future chapter； it is only necessary to drop a hint at present； because women are so often degraded by suffering the selfish prudence of age to chill the ardour of youth。 》From the same source flows an opinion that young girls ought to dedicate great part of their time to needle work； yet； this employment contracts their faculties more than any other that could have been chosen for them； by confining their thoughts to their persons。 Men order their clothes to be made； and have done with the subject； women make their own clothes； necessary or ornamental； and are continually talking about them； and their thoughts follow their hands。 It is not indeed the making of necessaries that weakens the mind； but the frippery of dress。 For when a woman in the lower rank of life makes her husband's and children's clothes； she does her duty； this is part of her business； but when women work only to dress better than they could otherwise afford； it is worse than sheer loss of time。 To render the poor virtuous； they must be employed； and women in the middle rank o
